social media like facebook has changed

the time in friendster to know and chat with girls are different,

now girls are more like glamouring themselves in facebook than friend or chat.

80 percent of them will accept your friend invitation but wont reply u ,

but when u comment on their POSING picture ,then only they reply.

i notice most of them dont know that they are ugly,

now girls are more toward FAMOUS , GLAMOUR ,SHOWING OFF themselve.

nowaday they start only allow FOLLOW , the ADD FRIEND is removed from their profile.

GIRLs are different than before.......................

Now aday left those really bad looking or those who are very fat will accept your friend request and chat reply very fast.............

seems like there are only ugly person left.......................................................

i give up wechat and Facebook

hi there .

i want to say/write that i give up wechat / facebook .

the fact i use it for as an alternative way to know girl , or find a date.

but it turn out many people appove my friend request but they never reply me ,

so sorry to say normally those very obese people and those look not good reply me,

and they approve fast ,

after my study days  from secondary school to college ,  i feel like there is no more chance for me to know girls ,

i am 26 this year ,  i been using these social site since i am 18 or 19 .

there is hard for me to see/bump into girls that are my age , after finish schooling .

i try so hard in fb or wechat , been shortly quit these few times, today i announce that i have Give Up of
it.

i personally give up , i am also feel so fed up , i am tired of these ,

if i could rate myself probably is 7 / 10 ,

before  wechat  exist,  i been though of drive around or go around my taman area to say hi to girls ,

that is near in my area ,

but now got wechat , where i can search for a list of people live near me , from 100m to 4km ,

but all barely serious about me ,

with case of criminal around ,  i think is one of reason that they refuse to meet .

when i start working , few  months and have salary.

i drive around 10-20 km when i offday , just try to scout of girls , though of can know them ,

but i didnt manage , i think i tried too hard ,

i think i missed my chance in college and now i am getting older year by year , i think my demand already drop alot ,

right now my eyes still eying for secondary school girls , but the fact that i am 26 years now ,

I am not suitable for teenage girl an ymore , my eye cant recognise the girl my age , is it 20 something or 3x years old, sometime look young but old age , sometime look old but young age ,

i dont know what girl suits me , sometime some pizzahut teenage delivery person called me uncle ,
some kids call me uncle , sometime the parent say call me older brother ,

i also dont know myself .

now i will go all natural , if i go out to do or buy my things , if it happens it happens , if there is not happen to see any girl that suits me , just be  it , i am tired of doing too desperate ,

when i working time in factory i already know is hard to see girls ,i am youngest and i see all much older people only ,

i leave it to god , right now i know is 99% to me is not possible to know girl online ,

i leave it to god ,i feel that i got lesser notice and didnt got chance to bump to beautiful girls anymore that is around my age,

我很累了 ， 我放弃了， i still got my pets to care , i still gt my business to make it stable that is to earn 1k or more so that i can earn a steady living , then only i can afford dating and all .

I FEEL THAT NOBODY CARE MY FEELING , NO BODY CARE TO KNOW ME , NOBODY CARE TO SHARE A LIFE TIME TO ME , I FEEL THAT I AM WORTHLESS , i feel that nobody/no girl  value me , just now i went to mini market a girl (probably younger than me , looks (5/10 ) cashier , i though she is tauke daughter , but she call me hello , u see this counter is closed , u go to other counter , on that side , i never though there is 2 counter , actually there is far opposite site , this is first time i go there.


if i could earn 1k a month , i can take more things and eventually sell more and more and earn more and more things.

i have this thinking that , i will be single forever , is a long time i dont get the love sign/chemistry anymore ,
u will know if a person suddenly smile and shy towards you , and eventually notice you , is this sign i am talking about ,

i m 26 years old , i also curious about girl body , i am still a virgin , my friend got 2 girlfriend already , 1st aleady hv sex and when he is 21+ year old he got a 16 year old girlfriend , pretty , shothair and cute ,
this is a type i looking for , i feel jjealous , i envy him , until 1-2 weeks ago he called my house , i dont even dare to pick up the call , i feel so embarrased with myself , when i was 21+ i also hope to get a schoolgirl girlfriend , that time iw ork shift my salary was 1.7k not yet deduct epf and not yet count OT，

even that time i got money , i though want spend to girl also none i just keep it myself , never spend to run a business ,

even got money doesnt mean  i got gf , i also driving car ,                  haaaaaah    ,
i today i really want to give up ev erything ,

i was avoid everyone , i dont like school party , or sports day , i dont like college presentation and dont like college selling things class , i have done / avoid all these , but right now i finally avoid my best friend since 13 year old .

i am very sad of myself , my friend he is son of businessman , open a shop ,now got 2 shop and his son get a small factory , his son drive gen2 and now civic 1.8 , get gfs , no need to work for people and no need get scolded ,no need get criitic , no need get scolded , he failed his spm , that days before spm he went learn driving car , and failed his spm ,

while me , i want to cry time taking spm , and in college i study very hard to success ,

but in the end i go factory suffer , i feel very stress , while he gets everything ,

I feel very sad , depress, i remember the days he ask me out with him but he bring his gf sit beside him , i at back my sadness can be seen and my friend know look at center mirror , i dont know how sad it is .i am so frustrated with my life , my father keep thinking that i go earn my own money then can dating , eveything i do myself , just because he doesnt have anything ,

actually i feel fed up with my family , my self , i am ashame of myself , more and more days i no more confident to myself , i dont dare to feel proud or confident , because i have no money and i have no gf , i have no thing in my life , i been work 4 factory i am the youngest , no girl i like , prettier is married , left big and fat woman , i so sad that my face also sad and no confident , sometime i feel myself face is like those anti social people ,

my parents is no suppotive of me , i have older sister and mother mental problem now , my father always against me , i hate myself ,

i am so sad that i dont want think about girl , my heart feel like it is dropping everytime i think about it  ,,

when college i no confident because i no money , i no car , but now haiz i found is not money problem too , with my age now money is really a probblem to me ,

i have just uninstalled wechat , and facebook i woont add people anymore , no matter how hard i try , there wont be people start conversation with me and wont chat with me , i have change photo and acount feww time but it end up the same

I am just another unknown human in this world.

my car with me 7 years aleady , i never fetch a girl other than my mom and sister ,

my dream to fetch a school girl , or girl around my age happily and go to cinema /walk the malls , it just didnt happen , my dream is to fetch girl in car beside me , talking and joking happily inside car ,

it wont happen to me , since i have no partner i dont bother to go out much ,

SMS People again

Anyone who read this , sure know that ,

SMS alot of :-

---fong fei kei people ,( ffk ) ,
---unserious ,
----lowballers ,
----pretend pathetic
(been a guy want rm400 graphic card but sms ask for rm200 because it was for 'orphanage' ) ,
---stupid low offers ,  we earn just rm5-10 but the dude ask me to fork out / rugi for him..............
---ask the things that are barely related , they probably knew and didnt call (ask for car gps map download ,
hello , car gps without a gps software , like garmin or papago etc , without the legal license software , how to download map inside.
ask format stuck china tablet.

latest i receive a guy sms to me ,

he sms "computer desktop service? , no power "

my thinking is he mean he probably say his desktop want service and it probably cannot turn on .

the guy doesnt know how to respect me , suddenly no power he wrote.

i say yes , (computer repair service.)

he reply "can come" ,  that time was 9pm , and i just finish settle my regular customer pc.

i say can ,

then he ask me "kos berapa .  kedai buka berapa hari , pukul berapa sampai berapa? "

i not sure where he found my contact , i guess probably he pass by saw banner ,

since he ask me what time to what time , my blog ,site detail has written , he probably didnt see it
properly or in detail .

i dont bother to reply anymore.

u ask kos berapa , i never check yet , and u stingy or scared ,

it may be motherboard spoil , not "no power" .

the guy i dont bother reply him ,

then he sms again kedai buka bila , desktop tak boleh on......

i no longer want reply him ,

he then wont / dont / dont bother to CALL me ,

he so desperate until he use other number sms me , that ask me the products that i sold thru ads site ,
he clearly saw in website , and he still ask what time to what time ,

he can browse my item,

he use other handphone number sms me , later about 5-10 minute , ask / trace me ,test me,

he ask ini graphic card ada lagi ?

i dont bother , i knew is him,

then next day ,again a person sms me again , ask ini motherboard(i advertise) ada lagi a?

he clearly TESTING me ,

the FUCK is the person cant call and cant come , and cant read properly since i state in my site?

the guy is it MUTE or DEAF?

if mute or deaf please state.

the MOTIVE of this person is to check my SERVICING RATE.

i no longer want reply sms , i tried again and i want to say that , those who sms no serious , and crazy world ,
they are social isolation maniac.

business life

my parents dont trust business ,

keep ask me go to factory etc work , find job find job.

they are big spender , black listed of many credit card , take new card to pay existing card dept , until
counselling ,

my thinking , there are people that no need to work , and still earn ,

like dealer , sell thing / stock and earn money , except i doing repair and servicing also .

be a dealer , shop , boss basically u no need to work , and can earn money ,

my theory is not all people need to work ,

i am a fan of mma fights , u see they fight until bloody mess , some eye also need surgery , some boken hand or leg , need stay at hospital , previously i so obsess to do this ,

but then i realise diong business , got money , got earning , freedom , no need to do so many things ,
most important no need stay office 7-8am to 6-10pm.

i have no time to work , that is reason i choose to work myself , i have many pets ,
no want want to care that why i do this ......................................................................

too bad my customers are not much , some regular , some online buyer , some real life customer ......

my parents do not trust business , keep on ask me find job ,
my parents dont think of opening business , dont think of create a job for me , they dont have this mentality.
dont have thinking that want to /force us do their business , no business ,

is very stressful for me with my past experience ,

they think i should go earn my own money , his parents also dont left anything for them they keep say this .

can spend alot credit card until over spend , never save or left any money , hokkien word seng kai seng ho ,
attitude.

but never say their own attitude ,

i not looking for some 10,000 to million business,

i jealous of people , pet shop they got job to do for their son ,
my friend a tyre shop son, his son drive a civic , modify etc ,

right now my business almost 2 year is slow , but never eat egg every month ,

modal also not much to spin / turn  ,

limited stock , limited selling , repair also slow business , sometime have to bear cost to courier and if spoil i have to personal cover warranty , not everytime earn ,

i hoping to find other thing to do , i just hope to earn 1k per month which i earn mostly less than that ,and dont even close.

i want to do other business too , or find a home based job which is barely available , mostly is scam,
so in the end i surely trust there is no home based job , and i mostly think of other business earning way.

I am dissapointed , I have less repair / service work , although i have some regular servicing customer,

not i dont want to work , i just dont want to work in factory , i cant and wont stand have to stay in office morning until night , i cant make it , i keep pets and nobody want care , sometime i work till 10pm .

sometime i shift,

i wish to have more customers , and can earn 1k nett every month..................................................................

i also less confident with myself ,peopel think i am jobless because i buy thing / service car during working days (when less jam).........

sometime i also feel very stress with unknown people keep sms me asking alot of things , asking repair how much quote etc , some of them competitor just want track me , some just unserious , some just want to prank , i barely reply sms ,

sometime i have to cash on delivery with some unknown new customers at night , I feel scared too ,
i dont have a partner to do cash on delivery with me , my father too arrogant to help sometime .

sometime i do onsite service some 10km away , i also feel stressful , this is like doing a sales job , got some experience , FYI companny pc cannot simply format , sometime i also doubt whether i can solve it ?

but thank god all the while i am able to solve it ,

with my personal and company experience..................................................................................................

if one day i am more succesful and established , i dont mind let my children to run the show , if they be humble why not?

my parents just think of their own good way , keep saying to me to find job and thats it ,
not their problem thinking , until now my parents dont support my business , i support use my factory saving , and suvive with food money ,

but my father frequently want know how much i earn / charge ,

my father earn almost 10 k , while i live like a poor person , i also dont get BR1m because of my father earning , which i get nothing ,

i just hope can earn 1k every month ,or close to it ,  i just want to earning that more close can survive myself ........................

sometime i earn just 60-70 , sometime few hundred but no more than 500,

cheapskate customer

nego after nego ,after give discount they ask for even more.
keep asking best price thru email or sms ,

i have actually met people , keep asking for quantity price ,
when payment he pay for quantity price  ,but only pay for 1 unit ,
reason is because he want try 1 unit first ,

i tell 3 unit rm 270

1 unit rm290

he try his luck.he pay rm270 for 1 unit, he lied ,
i have to tell him again , finally he top up. this people are smart.

i not buying this trick again , i dont like to entertain quantity because normally the deal wont success.

another example is people tell they wanted to repair computer ,they give 1 unit first
asking for cheaper , because they want bring again  other unit,

i found out that all of them lied.

normally they are end user not factory they wont buy quantity dont fall for it .
factory are payment by term and we as dealer need to roll our own money so i not doing this,


many time quantity it wont happen , when i started got people try to scam me
telling me he from other state and he wanted 10 unit , he find me because is near to his client
and he want i take stock 10 unit projector about RM10,000+
but pay by term , his company is unknown , not a factory , just got his email domain and nothing else.

so if you are approach by some small unknown vendor company dont do it.
they not gonna pay cash /deposit , we took 10,000 stock if he dont want how?
u think the stock easy to sell this fast?

if u are approach by fumakilla , flextronics , well known company then u are not risking yourself.
to conman /scammer .

fake promise and lie

it is very frequent i met people .....

want order ,after stock come refuse to accept

dont want answer call or sms

many refuse to deposit , some bought and some give excuses not to take.

is a waste of stock take money , the stock supplier wont return cash back

many people keep tell me go to this and that place to deliver stock , arrange pickup

promise this day next day , but in the end i prepared everything they went missing .......

i very frustrated , i have promise not to deliver , 

just i receive one call from malay lady asking me to drive to nearby town , the next day , but i prepare and wait ,whole day not even a call , 

now i am very strict , all order must deposit and I wont do personal delivery or pickup repair anymore. 

there is once i met accident the place i not familiar , in the end got some racist come kick my car 

and insurance and summon i receive alot more than the amount i earn.

stupid deal , 

we cant predict the customer is genuine or not , let just let them give action/come first , not i wait for them.

even when they come also still doesnt seal the deal .

u should only excited and happy when they paid and receipt is given ,

lowballer and lose business

everytime seller will face lowballer
give offer that are not reasonable and much lower than dealer price that dealer take.

many lowballer and cheater have many stories ,

some tell that he wanted a high end graphic card rm4xx for rm200.
because it was for the orphanage house.

lowballer like to throw sms and messages and email to seller.

some customer like to lie warranty by telling stories such as he bought 1 month ago but after 1 month he just tested not working , he want 1 to 1 exchange and dont want claim warranty

by right even distributor/supplier for dealer also practice this.

some customer even threaten the seller , tell that if you dont deliver today he will buy from other people already , scared us , I tell him OK ,,,,,,,,
he laugh , i am serious , u refuse to come here ,refuse to use courier service and want me drive 80km at night to your place risknig my life and petrol and tol money?

many unserious people will do this no deposit ...... so in the end gone missing
even my neighbour daughter already 20 + years old , order printer ink and last minute delay till 1 month and cancel the order , i buy from supplier and cant returned.
i face before take laptop and another ask to deliver accessories stock , at night keep drag to later time and finally refuse to answer call and sms.
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these stocks i sell at lost , and i clear it very fast luckily..............................
and lose money instead of earning.
hope to get back part of the stock money.

there are many crazy people.

normally the kids will give stupid offer and FFK , means cancel buying without inform ,gone missing last minute.

next time all order must deposit or payment upfront ,

take stock only when customer want

u might think is save money ,and take stock only when people want?

ur item may deliver in few working days ,

many people cant deposit these day ,cant bank in ,

and cant wait , so i risk my own money , i took ,after take stock and they refuse to deposit

,what happen?

they just gone missing , refuse to answer call and sms.

tat the reason they refuse to deposit , and another is they scared etc.

what would people deposit to you ?

because in this whole country they cant get anymore and no choice they can wait for u.

otherwise would they , out of 1-100 , just 5 will deposit.............

trust me.

nobody will wait for u , u take the stock first , there are chances you cant get your money back because the fucking thing u buy from supplier has 0 demand even if u sell at loss nobody wanted.

i sold keyboard and headphone at loss , still nobody want..........

thats life yo.

business started , what happen , what is like to open business

when i started business , there are basically very very less people.

when starting i got calls , first day i open already got people call and come , just when i drive out for lunch.

i did 1 hour to install software for the person , i so scared my face start to show and i cant talk right , my heart beat fast.

i feel like scared and no confident.

i promote every way i could , i receive alot of call and smses.

asking where is my shop , yes b4 i open shop , many online seller receive this question ,i open shop because i want people confident to me.

but the people ask and came very rare.

the one that not serious at all and wasting time is the one that SMS to me .
and alot of people they like to throw sms to give stupid offer , lowballers.
they probably know is not possible so they dont bother to call , not serious to buy , they just hope
things like durians all of sudden fall .
all those mesage ,email and sms is waste time , the people all full of excuses when i got the stock they wanted.

even tell the phone is his friend lend to use.

i feel dissapointed alot of time but i still continue to reply sms and email and messages.

after a while i came to know the one call is the one serious.

after 6 months i quit entertain forum messages.i deal none , until the supplier fed up with me keep call but failed to deal,even dont bother to send me their pricelist.

i quit reply forum.6 month just 1 sale just earn me about rm10.because too much competition i manage to sell  
thing that nobody sell , the thing that no demand.

sms i reply still but aafter 6-1 year months just 1-2 buy.

i start to quit reply sms but sometime i still entertain , but again and again they dissapointed me.

many people came to me because their main dealer have no stock , i keep chase for them ,supplier didnt have this stock.
they find me because i am leftover............
i grab people rubbish to do,

my sales majority is selling the thing on market didnt and no longer sell and on market hard to find.

chase and find this kind of item not easy ,sometime i drive far ,

i dong onsite service until penang island from mainland , about 80km  ,
sometime to butterworth ,

i start to realise business is not easy , i do everything that basically can earn money.

i even ask and do sport equipment ask for dealer , the supplier so arrogant , ask me take many stocks that few hundreds to thousands , so arrogant frequent dont bother to reply to me ,
ask bring stock to penang mainaldn but in the end i went penang island take.

this item for 1 year over i just manage to sell 1 unit , and yet i still cash on delivery deliver to tesco BM.
at night.

particular car model service also i do , it only happen to this model of car.

i feel stress and struggle ,my car instalment need to pay still , shop rental too , i feel very stress.

that time i very hardworking . but keep on play by unserious customer.

starting business

i save about 2-3 year working and other small savings ...........
work in 4 company tota.

i start doing business , eventually insider spread very fast and my manager decided to find problems with me ,  i decided to quit full time.

i decide plan , everything
find shop place survey price etc
location
budget take stock
what item need and price like racking and signboard
what tool i need to do repair etc.

and what stock to take

came out shop , stock , rack , i done.

i miss municipal license and payment , this need draw plan,
and need to buy fire extinguisher.

basically i done , thanks to my father help/

i feel shy to do alone starting shop , i dont have the mental to do it , i plan to hire people .
eg like trainee student ,

after that , there alot of people cant understand hire trainee , they sent their resume that their job experience and most of them finished study ,

they cant understand trainee , they want full pay yet throw resume at me ,

there only one people wanted real trainee , but the woman got problem , she put her stats like weight and height and i can see that this is a big woman , and didnt put photo of herself ,

i ask her  come interviwe just to see her , she keep reject and give excuses, finally i offer saturday and sunday also can also say cannot , finally i reject it........

i dont know what is wrong with her , she say want direct come is direct report , the person may have a very horrible mental and physical problem ,

breakdown business

advantage
no need to jam everyday
no need wake so early to office like 7-8am
no need pass and approval for going out
no need to rush
more relax
no limit to earning
create job opportunity for own , no need to find job around ..........................

i work 4 company .....

why in 3-4 year i work in 4 company

i face bully
i face woman boss shouting at me everyday like stupid/idiot
i face 51 year old woman sexual harassment
i frequent late
i have personal problem
my pet is sick , is it a nice excuse to tell? does anyone at my home bother to care? none
everytime stayback ,sometime 8 sometime 9 sometime 10pm,

ur upper level when you tell your point they wont hear even is good , no need argue , u cant argue for a reason, all boss though are right , when your boss angry on you , they will find every single mistake or wrong thing u do.........

why business

why doing business ?

starting i was doing computer technical support after finish study at college.

i feel sad , that time i doing double shift job ,

one week is morning shift and off 2 days then start work in night shifts then back to morning shift.

12 hour and without everyday 9+ 3 hourOT because i work under contract.that about rm700 i didnt get.

why i know , inside all permanent told me this i feel upset and dissapointed .the job and stress is not easy.

i at midnight i eat alone at nasi kandar pelita , i see teenagers eating roti canai before continue playing at cybercafes , i see couple eating together , while i eat alone facing stress.

i feel very sad ,, when i sleep people work , when i work people sleep and enjoy life.

i have no entertainment doing shift.

work not easy people will bully around , job stress is very high , we as technical will face difficulties everyday and everytime , at night where got vendor support?

i format about 10 pc , there so much issue , 2 person one shift but the senior not working ,

everyday got 10 tasks , if i charge rm20 each to format i got rm200 per day ,
that time format rate is rm50.

rm200 x 30 basically i earn rm6000 , that time my salary is rm1400+300 shift allowance ,

work in company we argue ,gt stab people , racial bully ,

i feel stress even when to come to office , sometime i feel like vomit , very stress ,

i dont know what i end up , that time i think want doing business

my friend father is a tyre shop owner , starting 1 shop , now go 2 shop ,his father even open exhaust small medium factory for my friend ,

at 17-18 year he drive gen2 auto 1.6 , i feel very jealous , i have no car ,

at 20 he drive civic 1.8 i-vtec , have 1-2 girlfriends ,

i dont know i feel very upset and dissapointed , i face stress everyday , when he enjoy his life.

i work in 4 company up and down , b4 i start run own business

intro

i want share my view , my opinion , my thoughs , and my life
about computer , business , complication , advantage and disadvantages ......

all about business